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Joy Spotting and Glimmer Moments

Micro moments of Joy are worth slowing down for. As children, we called it a sense of wonder after reading Rachel Carson. I was lucky enough to have an Aunt Nan who walked the beach with me and marveled at each shell and egg case I picked up and explained to me what they were. Out on the moors, she knew the name of all the wildflowers and shrubs and where to pick beach plums and high bush blueberries. In her back yard she could identify every bird that visited her crab apple tree. She was a walking field guide and I owe the cultivation of my sense of wonder to her. What a gift.

Nowadays there are movements and hashtags centered around #joyspotting and #glimmer moments, which to me are the same thing. Lady Bugs, Sunsets, Rainbows, Northern Lights, Bubbles, Pinwheels, Confetti, Cherry Blossoms and More. Many Social Media posts are in fact photos of glimmer moments or joy spotting. My Instagram Feed is full of them.

In a constantly overstimulated (and negative) world, glimmer moments, joy spotting and a sense of wonder can help build resilience. If we spend our energy looking for what’s good around us, we can release stress, settle our nervous systems, and slowly rewire our brains. I have spent decades fostering my sense of wonder – it’s never too late to start.

How to Cultivate a Sense of Wonder

Joyspotting 101

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Bluebird Sanctuary

Bluebirds always bring a bit of magic to anyone’s day.

Recycled Plastic Ultimate Bluebird Box from Songbird Essentials

One thing that didn’t make it onto our moving truck from our old house were the bluebird boxes from our lavender field. I decided to leave them behind for the bluebirds, but I missed them.

This week my local bird store called to say that the bluebird boxes were in and they are beauties made from recycled plastic from Songbird Essentials. Duncraft also makes them. We picked up two more which are now mounted on green fence posts on either side of the pond.

We also picked up a starling proof mealworm feeder

Mealworm Feeder

We spotted bluebirds out back from time to time near the bird bath last season, but this year we are ready for them and hope to offer them a new sanctuary for years to come.

Our favorite Bluebird lullaby

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Cardinal Symbolism

Snowy Cardinal this week. Glimmer Moment

As a WASP from Manhattan, I never learned about totems or spirit animals, but I have always believed in cardinals. They are easy to spot and they always make me smile. This female appeared at our feeder this week and has been busy keeping the juncos in line, for my glimmer moment of the day.

Some believe that seeing a female cardinal means that you will receive good news or something positive will happen for you in the future. Yay! The female cardinal is also considered a sign of bright days ahead. I’ll take it 😊. Some believe that a female cardinal is also a spiritual messenger sent by your loved ones in Heaven to let you know they will always feel your love and will be nearby. As the sole survivor of my immediate family – This I believe ❤️

According to native folklore, people with the cardinal totem listen to their inner voice and intuition very well. They are capable of tremendous compassion and sensitivity. Those with the cardinal as their spirit animal are focused and determined to make things happen. They also enjoy taking a leadership role and are responsible for managing many projects. People with this totem also know where to start and end projects. They have excellent strategy skills. Those with this spirit animal also like new challenges in their lives and are eager to start and tackle new things. They are incredibly organized and detail oriented. Sounds like most mothers I know.

In addition, cardinals are monogamous and both the male and female sing 🎶 Two of my favorite things.